Until now you have never really thought of the fact that you are going to be a dad and even if you have, the experience is a lot different from what you imagined. First you didn’t know it brings this much joy and fulfillment. Secondly, you didn’t know this’ little thing’ will almost take your wife away from you. Thirdly, you didn’t know it had this much demands.

Probably you had thought, “Our fathers did it, so why cant we?” But the truth is that most of our fathers didn’t do anything at all. Not that they did not want to, but they were scared themselves and the culture at their dispensation permitted a man to just drop the cash and run off. So they did just that and also occupy themselves with a lot of work and hanging out with friends. Unfortunately some of them ended up having extra marital affairs all because they became strangers in there own homes. Thank God it’s a lot different now and men of this age want to be part of their children’s lives as much as possible.